So M left again yesterday afternoon, this time for a long trip. He won’t be back until late Thursday night. It was a lot harder to let him go, probably because he just got back from a trip last Thursday night, and this time he’ll be gone much longer than the one night.
Oh, yeah, and we have two sick kids. BabyN puked everywhere less than an hour after he left. I got to take his high chair apart, clean it one piece at a time, and reassemble it during his naptime. Then he screamed for a good part of that naptime, which made it very difficult to do anything.
The dog’s been insane. Of course. She can’t leave me alone, probably because she’s lonely–and probably needs to pee. She won’t go when I take her outside. Can grief do that to a dog? Make them too sad to pee when they get the chance?
Then there’s PJ. He’s recovering from his cold; mostly just the cough is left. He feels just bad enough still that he spent his entire breakfast time screaming, his second tantrum of the day. I can’t even begin to count how many he has had since then. Do you think the cold is affecting his hearing? Because he WILL NOT listen to me today and then acts horrified when he ends up in time-out for disobeying.
I should probably have compassion for my sick little boy, but I can’t muster any today. He keeps forcing himself to cough, which obviously makes him feel worse. And his forced coughs sound like he’s about to hurl. It grates on my nerves that he won’t listen to anything I’m telling him to do that will help him feel better. Surely he does want to feel better, right?
The worst part is that I can’t share any of this with M. He’s super busy at the conference thing, and I can’t just call him on a whim to vent or even share a good story. It would be even better if we could split up the responsibility of caring for them like we do on the weekends. It’s tough meeting all their needs all by myself when they are this needy.
And now I’m done venting. I just needed to get that out of my system. Maybe now I can readjust my attitude and the rest of the week will go easier.