So today I logged into Facebook first thing in the morning to discover I had a friend request. It was an acquaintance from college, like many of my Facebook friends, but I had to hesitate to add her. You see, she ended up marrying my first love.
I’ve kept up with Cowboy on and off since the break-up, and in the weeks before his marriage to her, he asked if I would take him back if he left her. Something similar happened shortly before the birth of their daughter. He told me that if he’d known where in the city I lived, he would have just shown up at my door. He only went back to her (he was halfway here) because he didn’t know where to find me.
I thought it was for the best when I moved and never told him my new phone number, and never signed into AIM again.
So as you can imagine, it’s a little creepy having his wife on my friends list now. From the way he tells it, she was always incredibly jealous of me because of his attachment to me. I have to wonder if she added me to keep an eye on me or something. I am one of two friends from college on her friends list (yes, I looked), and she had a crush on the other one back then.
Or I’m just being paranoid. After all, I only know his side of the story there, and he was never the most emotionally stable guy. He had a probably with lying pathologically too. I’m guessing I never should have believed a word he said.
Either way, it was an interesting way to catch up a little on his life through her profile. They have three kids now. It looks like things are going well for them. I’m curious to know more, but it’s probably best if I leave it at that. If any of what he has told me in the past is true, I’m better off not pushing to know more about their lives over the past four or five years.
Lately I’ve been bothered by how outdated my blogroll is again already. I have lots of blogs I skip over because they’re dead blogs or haven’t been updated in months (or over a year for one). People have changed addresses and titles, and I haven’t fixed that here.
So I’m overhauling my blogroll in the next few days. Please keep an eye on my link to yours in the side to make sure I change it to the right address and have the right title and all that. Make sure I don’t accidentally delete it too, please. And of course, I’m always eager to find new blogs to read, so if you read here, let me know and send me the link to your blog so I can add it too.